Wow ruined my life..

topic posted Mon, April 30, 2007 - 11:02 PM by  hue
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About 2 years ago I was in college.
It was my 3rd year and I was going for my masters. One days (I was 25 at the time) I found wow at a local EB games. I picked it up and decided to try it. From there on it was love. At first I played 1-2 hours a day. But as I played more I became more addicted I wanted to reach higher goals, get better gear, and crit higher. I started playing 5, 6, 7 hours a day until I lost my girlfriend and my grades started to drop. At first it wasnt terrible I went from A's and B's to A-'s and B's. But this continued until I was failing college ( I was a marine biology major, genetics minor btw). I went on academic probation and dropped out 2 months later. I now live with my parents. They support me. I play wow everyday and since I cant get a girlfriend I sometimes use my dog. It has gotten terrible to the point where I think about ending it all. And I mean it all. Please someone help me, I must quit this game, but I cant its just WAY to fun.
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  • Re: Wow ruined my life..

    Tue, May 1, 2007 - 8:50 AM
    Hue, assuming we can take you seriously (that dog bit is stretching it) if you really need help, ask your parents. Tell them you need help. At this point you cannot do it alone and there are ways to guide you to better things. School is tough. (Biochem and Biology for me) Burnout is always a risk, but maybee you just needed a break. Your parents can help you get involved in a program that can give you tools to help you help yourself. Your sub conscious now dictates reality and you need tools and tricks to be able to break away from your addiction without pissing yourself off. Allow yourself to enjoy other things. A little at first, then work up form there. You are young and your life isn't over. There are many oppertinities for you. Get a job that you enjoy. Make some time with old friends.

    Best of luck
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    Re: Wow ruined my life..

    Fri, May 4, 2007 - 9:37 PM
    Hi its me again. I took Cody's advice and it went pretty well. My parents looked up and found a group for me to participate in (yea there are actually wow addict help groups who woulda thought!). I think I am making progress. I still play wow every day but I have cut 1-2 hours off my daily wow playing and I try to just simply watch tv or ready instead (this is an exercise the group gave me). I havent even come close to meeting a girl yet but I have plans with an old friend from college to see a movie (Blades of glory). I dont think I will ever quit wow, but I hope to make it a hobby instead of my life and thats where I am headed. cutting down from 14 hours a day to 12 hours a day is an accomplishment regardless of how small. Thanks for your support I will continue to post.
    • Re: Wow ruined my life..

      Mon, May 7, 2007 - 10:03 AM
      Wow, that is awesome, great for you. Take those baby steps, they are accomplishments. Also enjoy and reward yourself during those times your not in game. Don't forget to be patient, keep up those baby steps.

      Wow is a hobby for me. I love the game, but I only play occasionally. No I do not have any epic gear, and I'm only to level 64 with my main, but the fun is always there and I can take a few hours on a weekend and run an instance, but I'm done after that. I had my fun, maybee got some loot, but it's time form me to logg off. Maybee someday you'll be there too. The trick is to gradually find other things to do to replace the time you were WOWing. Going to see a movie is great, find an additional new hobby. :)

      Best of luck, I may not know you, but I am proud of your courage. :)
    • Re: Wow ruined my life..

      Thu, May 10, 2007 - 4:25 AM
      Rofl 14 hours to 12 hours?! WOW CONGRATULATIONS!! /sarcasm

      If your story is true, you're a joke. Throwing away your eduaction AND girlfriend for an online reputation and some shiney armour is pathetic.

      Just quit. It really is that simple. I decided what was the point after leveling my second character, it just got boring. Sell your account, then you never have to worry about falling back into WoW.

      You need to sort yourself out, and your parents should be doing more too.
      • Re: Wow ruined my life..

        Mon, May 14, 2007 - 5:05 AM
        Its good that your taking those baby steps, it would help beat the withdrawalls, i wish i done it that way insteed of just breaking my disks and deleteing the game/restore points and never looked at it again.

        God job mate keep it up, and remeber its just a game.
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          Re: Wow ruined my life..

          Wed, May 30, 2007 - 9:29 PM
          Another update! I have reduced my playing time by alot. I quit my raiding guild and am now a casual pvper on my mains (70 shaman and rogue). I rolled an alt to play casually too because I am now pretty much only a pvper in wow ( a warrior) the warrior is lvl 40 now but it took me 2 weeks to level this high. Before it would have only take maybe 3 days. However I did had a recent relapse when my dog died. I played for a week straight, but I got a new pet (a lizard). Also I have been seeing this girl kayla. We went on our first date about a month ago to a local beaner restaurant I really like.She said that if I can quit wow completely she will have sex with me. This is the biggest incentive ever! I think I am going to cancel my account just to feel her surrounding me. But we will see. For now I have made alot of progess usually only playing 5-10 ours a day which is a big step from 14 whatever you want to say.

          I am also planning to go back to college but probably with a different major. This time in teaching, I havent done much research but I think it is what I want to do. All those cute little high school/middle school students just give me so much joy. Well more updates coming soon!
  • Re: Wow ruined my life..

    Mon, June 18, 2007 - 4:32 AM
    Dam it, my computer crashed, lost all my writing. Here we go again.

    I came to the main page of Tribe looking to post my ads to obtain a job as a Board Operator in Talk Radio, and Videographer as well as getting side work with my co-worker in painting. I had to comment on this. What got me to quit is the fact that these flatulent, ignorant, narcissistic, smug, snotty, arrogant, closed minded fools I had to deal with on a daily basis. I am a very talent person, and "undiscovered talent" at many things, I am a "Diamond in the Rough." With this said, I have a 70 full frost mage, the following is what I faced while playing WoW, which lead me to ultimately quit:

    1. After turning level 60, I could not get the help I needed to do the big raids/instances. You might be saying, join a Hardcore Raid Guild. Actually, common sense, I did join 2 Casual Raid Guilds, few regular guilds, same type of ignorant, selffish types who conveniently can say no to someone. No help from hardly anyone at any time. As I stated in a post to my realms forum, Zul'jin and Suggestions. WoW needs to get computer players to help the people out.

    2. I did not have real life friends at my beckon call to get help with the game. Otherwise it would have made it a lot less of a struggle.

    More importantly, if I was lucky to have a girlfriend that loves and accepts me. I would be doing so much better than I am doing now. This is how it is in my world, you people should be so lucky! You don't know what you have, untill you don't have it! I am single, and lonely and miserable. I feel so unloved. I am living life alone. I deserve much better than this. I am a intellectual, analytical, open minded, compassionate, selfless, witty, unique person. A lot of women would be so lucky to have me in their life. My inner self and persona are true gems.

    Hue and everyone else I feel your pain, I'd like to talk to you via telephone about your struggles, WoW, life in general. Please contact me. I also would like the information as to were this WoW addicts group is, I need to go myself.

    Everyone, as always you can check out my movies and my MySpace at:

    www.youtube.com/cerebral01
    www.myspace.com/cerebral01

    Feel free to email me at cerebral01@hotmail.com to contact me to speak via telephone. I don't do email for communicating, unless absolutely necessary, only for attachments.
    • Re: Wow ruined my life..

      Tue, July 24, 2007 - 11:39 AM
      OMG I just responded to another one of your post that was to a 14 year old girl and now I see this one and its almost an exact copy with your contact info at the end.

      You are a sick MOFO. Leave the kids alone.

      You just can't seem to get around to posting those adds because its BS and you come here to prey on children. OMG I'm reporting you.

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