My fiance started playing wow when it first came out about 6 months after we moved in together. He's become a totally different person. Sometimes if I don't deliver dinner to him at the computer, he doesn't eat. We have a son that will be a year old next month. What happens when he's old enough to understand that a computer game is more important then he is? Or what happens when I try to tell him he can't spend all his time on the computer, but Daddy can? The worst thing is, I can't seem to convince my fiance that what he's doing is NOT NORMAL, because there's about 3 billion other assholes online every night telling him it's perfectly acceptable to risk losing everything for a game that has completely consumed his life. I really don't know how much longer I'm going to take second place to a video game. I think it might just feel better if he cheated on me. I would feel no guilt leaving him then.