Tribe.net. Local Connections Matt http://ihateWOW.tribe.net/thread/141b511d-3cfc-4fc5-afb4-c6ada4d16a68#0dfc96dd-548c-4ef8-9764-48a2d906997f 2009-06-07T20:30:09Z 2009-06-07T20:30:09Z

It can be tough to limit your game time, when you have been playing so much. Some people can do it with no problem, but others struggle. Ultimatums can work as well, and often it needs a big raising of the stakes to get through. Critically, understanding the situation and which triggers are going to be most effective, is the key to gettting through and finding a winning solution. There's a lot of tips for beating WoW addition at quitwownow.com Check it out.

Matt 2009-06-07T20:30:09Z Crow http://ihateWOW.tribe.net/thread/141b511d-3cfc-4fc5-afb4-c6ada4d16a68#bb05c623-0046-4238-879a-6a53dd12255a 2009-06-04T22:58:53Z 2009-06-04T22:58:53Z

Well... If this statement "no one is going to remember that, know that, or care that you did that when you die, so just stop" is true. Then life is meaningless by default. Since in the end; when the world is gone, NO ONE is there to care anbout ANYTHING, thus life is meaningless. But on a "small" scale you sould get him out of your life and get something else. If he cant limmit his playtime and go out to see the real world and/or care about you... Well theres no reason to stay. Give the ultimatu; you or the game.

Crow 2009-06-04T22:58:53Z Michelle http://ihateWOW.tribe.net/thread/141b511d-3cfc-4fc5-afb4-c6ada4d16a68#e65a617b-d320-408a-a481-09747bc4f074 2009-06-04T13:18:29Z 2009-06-04T13:18:29Z

I totally agree with skv, give him a choice and prepare yourself for the worse. I am a gamer (female) and my fiance of 10 years gave me the choice about 10 months ago. Guess what, I chose the game, we are now back together after being apart for 6 months, and to this day I don't regret it at all. I still play WoW, but I have learnt to balance everything in my life, before it was just WoW and Work.

Michelle 2009-06-04T13:18:29Z Samantha http://ihateWOW.tribe.net/thread/141b511d-3cfc-4fc5-afb4-c6ada4d16a68#2d1837e5-1668-469f-8e95-8ed6266f9f04 2009-05-26T01:02:20Z 2009-05-26T01:02:20Z

thanks =]

Samantha 2009-05-26T01:02:20Z skv http://ihateWOW.tribe.net/thread/141b511d-3cfc-4fc5-afb4-c6ada4d16a68#ec55c426-c9e2-49ab-ac4a-bacfd7fc674b 2009-05-22T23:38:28Z 2009-05-22T23:38:28Z

It seems he wants to spend time with you but same time play as much as possible. It's very hard do both same time so if he plays more wow then spend time with you then it means he is having more fun with that game. You have right to demand to limit his hobby because if you don't then your happiness your relationship will suffer. You could be a lot more happy with someone else you know. I recommend that you speak with him and tell that you want to leave him because he's not giving you enough time. It's hard thing to do but there is no really treatment for him. If he enjoys play wow more than spend time with you then you can't help it. It's his choice to choose what he really wants with his life. Complaining doesn't help, you need to make actions and make him to think himself what he really wants. If he still wants to be with you after you left, you can try 1 more time to see if he means it. Also if someone plays wow he's not worse than anybody else. We are all people doing enjoying different stuff.

skv 2009-05-22T23:38:28Z Samantha http://ihateWOW.tribe.net/thread/141b511d-3cfc-4fc5-afb4-c6ada4d16a68#1a61a3e0-d29b-40a5-97ab-cff21693429b 2009-05-22T01:04:07Z 2009-05-22T01:04:07Z

i really only joined Tribe so i could let out my dislikeness towards this game. my boyfriend plays and it SUCKS. like in the beginning of our relationship he played constantly. he would tell me he didnt want to hangout cause he was gonna play wow. and that really pissed me off. then on top of that he told me we spent too much time together and he needed "space." i hated him at that point, enyet i still went out with him. then out of the blue he just stopped playing until recently. he stopped for 4 months and let me just say our relationship was so goood. then his dumb wow friends got him back into it. so i told him i didnt want him playing while i was over. and he's good with that. but i just hate how much he plays, cause that all he does when im not there. he plays from like 6pm-12am. and i tell him you play atleast 6hrs a day and he gets mad me. im so sick of it. im embarrassed that im going out with someone that plays. cause all he does when he plays is eat and masterbate. its so fucking digusting. god i hate this game so much. guys that are reading this are probably like ohh this isnt true blah blah blahh. but like it isss. like think about it, youre playing this fictional character and you just get sucked in and forget everything else. i hate it. just the fact that 11 million people are on their asses watching a computer screen for soo many hours. like how can they do that it makes me sick. i just hate that game. it wastes peoples lives to do stuff and experience life. like most people playing wow are probably going to waste like more then 1/2 their life playing a stupid game that'll get you no where. like OMG AWESOME YOURE A FUCKING LEVEL 80. no one gives a fuck. no one's going to give a you a prize. no one is going to remember that, know that, or care that you did that when you die, so just stop. ugh i hate it. and sorry if i offended anyone. i didnt mean to. and if you have a negative thing to say, dont say it at all please. this is just my opinion and you can take it however you wantt. i dont really care. but i just want some support cause my boyfriend is just giving me shit about it and this games made us get into fights so muchh and has made me sadd. i just want some support so i dont sound crazy for hating a game so much. thanks so much to whom ever read this. -sam

Samantha 2009-05-22T01:04:07Z